Yesterday I had off so I figured that it would be a good time to hang out with Elana since she moved we hardly have any time to hang out anymore. When she does come to the house it is usually like 5 minutes or less cause she and our parents are still walking on eggshells around each other. My dad and my sister are not getting along to begin with since he kicked her out so she hightailed it to Auburn where she now lives and works. She loves it up there and I am happy about that. So yesterday, she worked till 3 and I called her at like 12 and she called me back at 2 and told me that we could go to a movie and dinner. I told her to come over and we could decide what movie to go see. When she got here my eyes bugged out of my head when I saw her. She now has her hair blonde. BLEECH Blonde. It took me a while to get over the shock of it all but I think she looks really good. When I get a picture I'll show y'all.
We then left the house and went to Shaws where I work so I could cash my check and Elana talked to her old produce manager for a bit. When he saw her, I thought his eyes were going to fall out of his head. He looks at her and goes, "What did you do to yourself? You look good!" So they talked for a bit as well as talking to someone Elana knew that I didn't. Then we went to the movies. We were going to see Fred Claus which opened not too long ago, but we were too late for it, as well as Enchanted, so we went to see Bee Movie instead. I thought I was going to hate it cause I had no idea what it was about and what not, but I was suprised on how much I liked it. It was a really cute movie and Jerry Seinfeld as Bee was funny and cute rolled into one. Elana loved it too and we both decided that we will go to the movies again next weekend to see Fred Claus or Enchanted. So we'll see which one we'll go to.
After the movies we went to Friendlys for dinner. Elana had called her friend, Anna after the movie and told her to meet us there. But Elana and I were so in tune with singing to Christina Aguilera that we didn't see Anna pull in until she called Elana. We went inside and I told Anna that I like working when she asked me. We had to wait for like 15 minutes to get a table cause there were alot of people there and what not so we stood around and talked and stuff. We got into a deep conversation once we were seated and got our food. It seems that Tyler, Elana's boyfriend is being a jerk to her and is making her feel like crap, I guess. I dont know the whole story of what is going on and everything, but after Thanksgiving, I am starting to see what she is going through.
After Elana and Tyler moved in, it seems like they have been arguing more and Tyler wont do anything to help Elana out and what not. And he gets mad at the littlest things, like when Elana talks on the phone for long periods of time and yells at her and everything. He makes her mad and on Thanksgiving they were arguing cause Tyler was telling her to do everything and all he was doing was sitting around watching tv and not even bothering to ask if she needed any help. Even his mother was yelling at her to do stuff too, and that made her even more mad. I wanted to hurt Tyler for not being able to be a good boyfriend and help her out like any boyfriend would do. When Elana talked to Anna and I at the restaruant she told us that he hit her arm the other night. I know it's just on the arm, but it doesnt give him the right to do so. He even got mad at her for wanting to hang out with our older brother peter cause he wanted to watch a movie with her. That has got to be one of the stupidest things I have heard. Elana is entitled to see her siblings anytime she wants. Her boyfriend has no right to control who she sees and who she doesnt. If he does that then he is one immature person indeed.
Now that he knows Elana likes someone she works with, he is being all nice and stuff to her, but I am not sure how long it is going to last to be honest. I thought he was a good guy to her, but now I am not sure what will happen. I want them together, cause they look so nice together, but then I want her out of the relationshio cause he is making her feel like she is worthless. Elana told me that the relationship is not as fun as it once was. She even told me that she doesnt like kissing him or anything to that nature. He even told her that she has some growing up to do cause their ages are kinda far apart, but I think he needs to grow up and find what he really wants, cause if he doesnt then he won't know what a good girl he had in my sister until he loses her. I hope things can work out but I dunno. We'll have to see, but I think they have reached the end and she will have to move on. She told me that it has gotten to the point where she wants to move out of the apartment with Tyler cause she cant stand him anymore. I wish there was something I could say to her to make her feel better, but I have not been in this type of situation before so the only thing I can do is be there for her, but I wish I could do more than i already am. I hate to see my sister unhappy and if I could I would hurt Tyler multiple times for what he has done to Elana. I can only hope things will work out but I dunno. I dont think I ever will.
But I am glad I got to hang out with Elana and hear her talk to me like she did. For the first time in my life I felt that Elana was comming to me with a problem and not me comming to her with one. I hope things like that continue. It was nice being with her for we dont do things like that often. Hopefully we can hang out more often.
I guess that is all for me. I'll write more later.
Peace, Love, and Penguins,
Alright, I meant to post this entry last night before the net shut off at 12 like it normally does. But me being the distracted person I am, decided to have more fun in a chat for one of my RPGS and have fun on greatest journal and I completely forgot about writing this entry out. So now while I have time before I completely forget again, I will write what I did last night, and I did have alot of fun as well as having a deep conversation with my sister about her current situation with our friend, Anna. So here goes: